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Sometimes individuals may not be certain if actions toward them constitute stalking, or may be uncertain as to the identity of the stalker.  In all cases, but especially in these circumstances, it is very important that you keep detailed records of all suspicious activity. 

For every incident, document dates, times, locations, witnesses’ names, and what the stalker was doing, saying, wearing, driving (including license plate numbers, if possible). Also, keep and date all cards, letters, notes and envelopes from the stalker. If the stalker has left flowers or other "gifts" at your home, on your car, or at your job, preserve these as well. If the stalker is making obscene or harassing phone calls, you should inform the telephone company. You may be able to trace the calls by pressing a code after you disconnect the call. In many areas, the Call Trace feature is activated by pressing *57 after hanging up. However, check with the phone company in your locality to determine if this service is available in your area, how to activate it, and if there is a cost to use the feature.  For more information in keeping a stalking log, see Stalking Log Information.